Blog Directory
Wednesday
Can I Get my Boyfriend Back if he's not Interested?
So you want to know how to get your ex back if
he's moved on, well the first thing to realize
is that moping around isn't going to do you any
good because that makes you less attractive!
There are ways to get him to see what he has lost...
even if he has moved on to another woman it is
possible that all is not perfect with
that relationship, although you should never
approach that subject!
To begin with you would need to plan occasions
where you "happen" to be in the same group or
location where you would be seeing one another and
maybe exchanging some casual conversation.
Then you could be friendly, in a natural way...
not fakey... remember,he knows you well!
As these chance encounters happen once in a while
you will get to a point where he could see you
as someone he can comfortably talk and joke with,
putting the stress of the broken
relationship in the past.
Just make sure to keep some distance if the other
woman is present.
Remember too that the only way anyone can see you
as a worthwhile person is if you really are that
person - you can't be phoney -
meaning that you should be building success in other
aspects of your life such as family, school, job...
By demonstrating that in spite of everything that
happened, you are moving on and succeding in other
areas of your life...you project self-confidence
and that can be sexy.
Show interest in your conversations but don't be
afraid to show a little attitude. You can be
comfortable flirting and hanging out with friends
without giving any of them the impression that
you're playing games...just so your ex boy-friend
realizes that you're available but not that easy
to get!
When you feel like he's watching you, give him a
sidelong glance to let him know that you are paying
attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't
have me" kind of way... that should pique
his interest.
If old times happen to come up, casually mention
some of the best times that you had together...
(skip the bad ones!) These good memories will
remind him of how good the two of you used to be
together.
While you're following your heart and plotting to
get your ex back,remember to use your brain and
work on your other goals toward a successful life.
Success can be sexy! And that's a smart way to get
a guy's attention!
I have given you some helpful suggestions but you
can get much more help by going to
Magic of Making Up
he's moved on, well the first thing to realize
is that moping around isn't going to do you any
good because that makes you less attractive!
There are ways to get him to see what he has lost...
even if he has moved on to another woman it is
possible that all is not perfect with
that relationship, although you should never
approach that subject!
To begin with you would need to plan occasions
where you "happen" to be in the same group or
location where you would be seeing one another and
maybe exchanging some casual conversation.
Then you could be friendly, in a natural way...
not fakey... remember,he knows you well!
As these chance encounters happen once in a while
you will get to a point where he could see you
as someone he can comfortably talk and joke with,
putting the stress of the broken
relationship in the past.
Just make sure to keep some distance if the other
woman is present.
Remember too that the only way anyone can see you
as a worthwhile person is if you really are that
person - you can't be phoney -
meaning that you should be building success in other
aspects of your life such as family, school, job...
By demonstrating that in spite of everything that
happened, you are moving on and succeding in other
areas of your life...you project self-confidence
and that can be sexy.
Show interest in your conversations but don't be
afraid to show a little attitude. You can be
comfortable flirting and hanging out with friends
without giving any of them the impression that
you're playing games...just so your ex boy-friend
realizes that you're available but not that easy
to get!
When you feel like he's watching you, give him a
sidelong glance to let him know that you are paying
attention to him, but in a mysterious "you can't
have me" kind of way... that should pique
his interest.
If old times happen to come up, casually mention
some of the best times that you had together...
(skip the bad ones!) These good memories will
remind him of how good the two of you used to be
together.
While you're following your heart and plotting to
get your ex back,remember to use your brain and
work on your other goals toward a successful life.
Success can be sexy! And that's a smart way to get
a guy's attention!
I have given you some helpful suggestions but you
can get much more help by going to
Magic of Making Up
Monday
Saturday
How Soon Should You Make Up? You Can Ask T DUB...
Making Up is Magic but T Dub cautions you about Premature Reconciliation!
You can listen to what he has to say in this video and learn much more at T Dub's
website The Magic of Making Up
You can listen to what he has to say in this video and learn much more at T Dub's
website The Magic of Making Up
Wednesday
To Keep Your Man... Learn to Wage Peace!
One way we can experience some peace in all our
relationships is to try to understand what is really
going on...What if you could suddenly realize that
your guy is not fighting the fight you think he is...
He's not really fighting you...
The last time my husband came home as bristly as a
porcupine bitching about one thing and then another,
like for instance "I can't find anything in this house,"
instead of asking if his black sweatshirt was in the
laundry... which would usually have led me to answer
in a belligerent voice "when do you ever put anything
where it belongs?" and from there it could build up to
a royal fight!
This last time, I sat down at the kitchen table...
held my face in my two hands...breathing deeply in and
out... in a matter of two, three minutes I started to
feel peaceful inside and when I looked up, he was
looking at me with a worried or maybe a puzzled look...
When I said "I don't want us to fight honey" it seemed
that the peaceful feeling I had mustered inside me was
oozing out into the little kitchen...Peter sank into
the other chair, looking deflated...the bluster all
gone...he rubbed one hand through his hair and mumbled
something about having had a tough day... I reached
a hand across the table and he squeezed it...
So maybe you're thinking why should I back off when he's
verbally attacking me? Why should it always be me backing
off? I don't think it's a matter of backing off... it's
more than that...It's been there for one another...
When a guy and a girl first meet they usually start to be
attracted physically... he thinks she's the kind of woman
he would like to hold and make love to and you respond
partly because you're flattered by his attention and
because you like the kind of guy he appears to be...
As your relationship progresses and you grow to understand
one another more and more, there probably are occasions
where one of you needs some loving understanding and
support from the other one that would be different from
the passionate lovemaking you enjoy most of the time...
We all need to have at least one person in the world
we cancount on for understanding and support...it is
assumed that every child gets that kind of love from
his/her mother no, I'm not saying that you would be
taking over the role of the understanding mother,
but on the days where everything seems to have gone
wrong do you want him to come to be held and comforted
by you or do you want him to go to mom?or someone else?
And of course, you know that sooner or later you'll get
your share of hurt and bad luck when you'll need to be
held and comforted.
Going back to the matter of who backs off in an argument,
many couples don't know how to discuss a point without
becoming personally hurtful... too many of those explosive
sessions lead to door-slamming break-ups and bitter regrets.
In The Magic of Making Up
TW Jackson says:
"But once you know and UNDERSTAND and are
given just a little guidance on what to do and
when to do it…it's like being handed "the recipe"
for love if you will…Because not only will you be
able to get your lover back, but also you will be
much better equipped to KEEP HIM long,
long into the future.
Isn't that great news?"
In a close relationship of heart, mind and soul partners
learn to sense one another's need for support and comfort
and choose to wage peace. No man or woman in their right
mind wants to leave a partner who cherishes and values them.
Having The Magic of Making Up on hand will help anyone solve their relationship problems and
maybe help a friend too.
relationships is to try to understand what is really
going on...What if you could suddenly realize that
your guy is not fighting the fight you think he is...
He's not really fighting you...
The last time my husband came home as bristly as a
porcupine bitching about one thing and then another,
like for instance "I can't find anything in this house,"
instead of asking if his black sweatshirt was in the
laundry... which would usually have led me to answer
in a belligerent voice "when do you ever put anything
where it belongs?" and from there it could build up to
a royal fight!
This last time, I sat down at the kitchen table...
held my face in my two hands...breathing deeply in and
out... in a matter of two, three minutes I started to
feel peaceful inside and when I looked up, he was
looking at me with a worried or maybe a puzzled look...
When I said "I don't want us to fight honey" it seemed
that the peaceful feeling I had mustered inside me was
oozing out into the little kitchen...Peter sank into
the other chair, looking deflated...the bluster all
gone...he rubbed one hand through his hair and mumbled
something about having had a tough day... I reached
a hand across the table and he squeezed it...
So maybe you're thinking why should I back off when he's
verbally attacking me? Why should it always be me backing
off? I don't think it's a matter of backing off... it's
more than that...It's been there for one another...
When a guy and a girl first meet they usually start to be
attracted physically... he thinks she's the kind of woman
he would like to hold and make love to and you respond
partly because you're flattered by his attention and
because you like the kind of guy he appears to be...
As your relationship progresses and you grow to understand
one another more and more, there probably are occasions
where one of you needs some loving understanding and
support from the other one that would be different from
the passionate lovemaking you enjoy most of the time...
We all need to have at least one person in the world
we cancount on for understanding and support...it is
assumed that every child gets that kind of love from
his/her mother no, I'm not saying that you would be
taking over the role of the understanding mother,
but on the days where everything seems to have gone
wrong do you want him to come to be held and comforted
by you or do you want him to go to mom?or someone else?
And of course, you know that sooner or later you'll get
your share of hurt and bad luck when you'll need to be
held and comforted.
Going back to the matter of who backs off in an argument,
many couples don't know how to discuss a point without
becoming personally hurtful... too many of those explosive
sessions lead to door-slamming break-ups and bitter regrets.
In The Magic of Making Up
TW Jackson says:
"But once you know and UNDERSTAND and are
given just a little guidance on what to do and
when to do it…it's like being handed "the recipe"
for love if you will…Because not only will you be
able to get your lover back, but also you will be
much better equipped to KEEP HIM long,
long into the future.
Isn't that great news?"
In a close relationship of heart, mind and soul partners
learn to sense one another's need for support and comfort
and choose to wage peace. No man or woman in their right
mind wants to leave a partner who cherishes and values them.
Having The Magic of Making Up on hand will help anyone solve their relationship problems and
maybe help a friend too.
Friday
The Magic of Making Up - TW Jackson Testimonials
There Are NO Impossible Situations
'The Magic of Making Up'
Now, what I have noticed in helping so many folks,
is that there are UNDERLYING REASONS and MOTIVES
as to why their exes take them back that lay hidden
from sight of most people…
But once you know and UNDERSTAND and are given
just a little guidance on what to do and when to do
it…it's like being handed "the recipe" for love
if you will…
Because not only will you be able to get your ex
back, but also you will be much better equipped to
KEEP THEM long, long into the future…
Isn't that great news?
Let's listen to what some of the 6100 customers
in 67 countries have to say:
'The Magic of Making Up'
Let's talk about what's inside
'The Magic of Making Up' and how it is going to help you:
Virtually Immediate Benefits:
How to get your head on straight. Use my Fast Forward
Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up
pain and depression...
You CAN feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)
Do they still care? Discover the TELLTALE clues your ex
leaves that says you still have a special place in their
heart…and I don't care what they say... This is all you
need to look for PERIOD! (Page 21)
You can see a video of T Dub speaking at:
'The Magic of Making Up'
Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside
this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use
to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over
him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more
than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)
Do you know the core reason why men leave women? ...it is
not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am SHOCKED
most women can't answer this question. Men desire this
ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and
they will be yours FOREVER. (Page 5)
What women crave the most... and if she doesn't get it…
it's only a matter of time before SHE WILL look for it
somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master
this simple technique. (This is the #1 technique used by
unscrupulous Don Juan's use to steal married women.)
(Page 6)
Are they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly
as catastrophic as it first appears…and how to use the
fact that 90% of rebound relationships never work out to
your advantage. (Page 18)
Were you the one that had the affair? How to use the
"clean slate" technique in conjunction with one other
secret technique and come a looong way to forgiveness
in the shortest amount of time.(Special Bonus Included)
When to apologize and when you shouldn't. In the right
circumstance just one good apology will land you back
in their arms…other times an apology will blow up in
your face and hurt your future chances.
(Special Bonus Included)
The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into
their heart,mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive
it may never occur to you. (Page 33)
Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things
you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the
Clean Slate Method and "breaking the pattern" you can.
Quickly and easily.
The Instant Reconnect Technique - I almost didn't include
this one because it may be too potent. It is
"psychological judo" and will trick your ex lovers mind
into thinking you are still together.
This is SUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defense against it.
(Page 43)
Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back
on a date. Follow my instructions and it will be easy
as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked
hundreds if not thousands of times. (Page 38)
The Bonding Secret so powerful that is partially
responsible for the reason hostages sometimes bond with
their kidnappers or oppressors (Stockholm Syndrome.
This is relationship magic. It is undetectable,
unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can
not defend against it, let alone tell you how it
is done.
Like ANYTHING, this can be used for good or bad.
Once you own
The Magic of Making Up you will possess the power
to REBOND or BOND with anyone. Please use responsibly!
Sex? When you should have sex during the reconciliation
process.Both men and women get this completely wrong.
Guys you will speed up the process immensely armed
with this information. Ladies, most of you nearly
destroy your chances because you sleep with him too
soon.(Page 46-48)
What foods toy with your emotions and what foods help
put you in balance. Putting your relationship back
together is hard enough, make sure you are eating
foods that will help you. (Page 26-28)
Decisions you should actually put off until you are
back together.(Page 60)
How to use the Fast Forward Technique to overcome
hang ups you may have with dieting, exercise, self
esteem and other challenges that stem from negative
feelings. (Page 14)
Recapture the romance you had when love your love
was new. Impossible? Not once you learn the magic
of Pattern Breaking and you stir in a dose of the
techniques in Chapter 4.
Ladies if you follow the advice in Chapter 6,
he will NOT be able to get you out of his mind -
(It's just the way men are wired.)-He will start
CALLING YOU again and you will be shocked at the
complete transformation he makes!
Afraid you will just start fighting again once
your back together?
How to diffuse arguments before they start.
This is so simple and works so well you will
swear it's "magic"...and it only takes one
person!
And you will find a whole lot more when you read:
'The Magic of Making Up'
'The Magic of Making Up'
Now, what I have noticed in helping so many folks,
is that there are UNDERLYING REASONS and MOTIVES
as to why their exes take them back that lay hidden
from sight of most people…
But once you know and UNDERSTAND and are given
just a little guidance on what to do and when to do
it…it's like being handed "the recipe" for love
if you will…
Because not only will you be able to get your ex
back, but also you will be much better equipped to
KEEP THEM long, long into the future…
Isn't that great news?
Let's listen to what some of the 6100 customers
in 67 countries have to say:
'The Magic of Making Up'
Let's talk about what's inside
'The Magic of Making Up' and how it is going to help you:
Virtually Immediate Benefits:
How to get your head on straight. Use my Fast Forward
Technique and get instant relief from emotional break-up
pain and depression...
You CAN feel better and within minutes! (Page 13)
Do they still care? Discover the TELLTALE clues your ex
leaves that says you still have a special place in their
heart…and I don't care what they say... This is all you
need to look for PERIOD! (Page 21)
You can see a video of T Dub speaking at:
'The Magic of Making Up'
Man had an affair? How to fight fire with fire. Inside
this magic bag you will discover dirty tricks women use
to steal a man. How to neutralize the power she has over
him by understanding the ONE THING he craves more
than sex, food or ball games. (Page 5)
Do you know the core reason why men leave women? ...it is
not beauty, sex, or a younger fresher face… I am SHOCKED
most women can't answer this question. Men desire this
ONE thing more than any other…give it to them and
they will be yours FOREVER. (Page 5)
What women crave the most... and if she doesn't get it…
it's only a matter of time before SHE WILL look for it
somewhere else. You can get her back fast once you master
this simple technique. (This is the #1 technique used by
unscrupulous Don Juan's use to steal married women.)
(Page 6)
Are they with someone else now? Why this is not nearly
as catastrophic as it first appears…and how to use the
fact that 90% of rebound relationships never work out to
your advantage. (Page 18)
Were you the one that had the affair? How to use the
"clean slate" technique in conjunction with one other
secret technique and come a looong way to forgiveness
in the shortest amount of time.(Special Bonus Included)
When to apologize and when you shouldn't. In the right
circumstance just one good apology will land you back
in their arms…other times an apology will blow up in
your face and hurt your future chances.
(Special Bonus Included)
The fastest and shortest path (bar none) back into
their heart,mind and soul. This is so counter-intuitive
it may never occur to you. (Page 33)
Wish you could start over? Take away hurtful things
you said? Turn back time? Using a combination of the
Clean Slate Method and "breaking the pattern" you can.
Quickly and easily.
The Instant Reconnect Technique - I almost didn't include
this one because it may be too potent. It is
"psychological judo" and will trick your ex lovers mind
into thinking you are still together.
This is SUBCONSCIOUS and there is no defense against it.
(Page 43)
Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back
on a date. Follow my instructions and it will be easy
as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked
hundreds if not thousands of times. (Page 38)
The Bonding Secret so powerful that is partially
responsible for the reason hostages sometimes bond with
their kidnappers or oppressors (Stockholm Syndrome.
This is relationship magic. It is undetectable,
unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can
not defend against it, let alone tell you how it
is done.
Like ANYTHING, this can be used for good or bad.
Once you own
The Magic of Making Up you will possess the power
to REBOND or BOND with anyone. Please use responsibly!
Sex? When you should have sex during the reconciliation
process.Both men and women get this completely wrong.
Guys you will speed up the process immensely armed
with this information. Ladies, most of you nearly
destroy your chances because you sleep with him too
soon.(Page 46-48)
What foods toy with your emotions and what foods help
put you in balance. Putting your relationship back
together is hard enough, make sure you are eating
foods that will help you. (Page 26-28)
Decisions you should actually put off until you are
back together.(Page 60)
How to use the Fast Forward Technique to overcome
hang ups you may have with dieting, exercise, self
esteem and other challenges that stem from negative
feelings. (Page 14)
Recapture the romance you had when love your love
was new. Impossible? Not once you learn the magic
of Pattern Breaking and you stir in a dose of the
techniques in Chapter 4.
Ladies if you follow the advice in Chapter 6,
he will NOT be able to get you out of his mind -
(It's just the way men are wired.)-He will start
CALLING YOU again and you will be shocked at the
complete transformation he makes!
Afraid you will just start fighting again once
your back together?
How to diffuse arguments before they start.
This is so simple and works so well you will
swear it's "magic"...and it only takes one
person!
And you will find a whole lot more when you read:
'The Magic of Making Up'
Wednesday
What if You Could Recapture Your Ex Lover's Mind, Heart and Soul?...
Is this the title of a romantic movie? Recapture my ex-
lover's mind, his heart and his soul? That's a tall order...
which one would be more difficult?
Which one of those three did I ever have? I believe I had
his heart when we decided to get married, and he had mine!
We really cared about one another and our love burned hot
setting our passion on fire...I don't know about our souls...
we didn't really get into any deep talk... we knew one
another through the sharing of the music we both liked,
good food and drink with friends and family, and passionate
lovemaking...
Then when we moved into our apartment after our wedding,
I don't know exactly how it started, we were bickering
a lot about small things but we still had a passionate
love life and money enough to go out with our friends.
Then I had our first baby and we thought I should quit
my job and stay home with him for a couple of years...
So that meant there was less money coming in and my
husband started to bitch about 'never having any money
to do anything' I started to think he wished he could
still have the life his unmarried friends have, we
don't really have any serious discussions...because
I'm afraid that might lead to a breakup...
You know I think that young lovers should talk more
and get to know more about one another's mind and
hopes for the future, but hormones get in the way
and they believe that love will overcome any problem.
Even if you feel right now that your situation is too
far gone,too screwed up, you could go to counseling?
nah he would never want to go...he doesn't think
there's anything wrong anyway,
I guess that's not right,he probably thinks that
there isn't anything that can be fixed, meaning our
marriage is hopeless...
Besides counseling cost money and we don't have too
much of that. And yet, if I thought there was a small
chance that I could get my lover back, that someone
could help us get out of our rut...
I could give up going to the mall and save a little
money that way, I go with my friend Brenda to look for
bargains, but really we're both fooling ourselves,
trying to forget about our sad lives.
Hey, Brenda told me about a book
'The Magic of Making Up'. that's all over the
internet, written by a guy named TW Jackson, or 'T dub'.
I am tempted to get that book ...that would be only
a one time expense...
I saw him, T dub, talk on a 'YouTube' video and he
really gave me some hope, he talks like he really cares
about people's problems...What if he tells enough in
his book for me to understand my husband's mind and
soul enough to save our relationship. I really don't
want us to break up...so I made up my mind, I've got
to get T dub's book...
I feel better already, I have hope now that we can
save our relationship if we just follow the great
advice in
'The Magic of Making Up'.
lover's mind, his heart and his soul? That's a tall order...
which one would be more difficult?
Which one of those three did I ever have? I believe I had
his heart when we decided to get married, and he had mine!
We really cared about one another and our love burned hot
setting our passion on fire...I don't know about our souls...
we didn't really get into any deep talk... we knew one
another through the sharing of the music we both liked,
good food and drink with friends and family, and passionate
lovemaking...
Then when we moved into our apartment after our wedding,
I don't know exactly how it started, we were bickering
a lot about small things but we still had a passionate
love life and money enough to go out with our friends.
Then I had our first baby and we thought I should quit
my job and stay home with him for a couple of years...
So that meant there was less money coming in and my
husband started to bitch about 'never having any money
to do anything' I started to think he wished he could
still have the life his unmarried friends have, we
don't really have any serious discussions...because
I'm afraid that might lead to a breakup...
You know I think that young lovers should talk more
and get to know more about one another's mind and
hopes for the future, but hormones get in the way
and they believe that love will overcome any problem.
Even if you feel right now that your situation is too
far gone,too screwed up, you could go to counseling?
nah he would never want to go...he doesn't think
there's anything wrong anyway,
I guess that's not right,he probably thinks that
there isn't anything that can be fixed, meaning our
marriage is hopeless...
Besides counseling cost money and we don't have too
much of that. And yet, if I thought there was a small
chance that I could get my lover back, that someone
could help us get out of our rut...
I could give up going to the mall and save a little
money that way, I go with my friend Brenda to look for
bargains, but really we're both fooling ourselves,
trying to forget about our sad lives.
Hey, Brenda told me about a book
'The Magic of Making Up'. that's all over the
internet, written by a guy named TW Jackson, or 'T dub'.
I am tempted to get that book ...that would be only
a one time expense...
I saw him, T dub, talk on a 'YouTube' video and he
really gave me some hope, he talks like he really cares
about people's problems...What if he tells enough in
his book for me to understand my husband's mind and
soul enough to save our relationship. I really don't
want us to break up...so I made up my mind, I've got
to get T dub's book...
I feel better already, I have hope now that we can
save our relationship if we just follow the great
advice in
'The Magic of Making Up'.
Monday
How Do I Get My Girl-Friend Back ? Can TW Jackson's EBook the Magic of Making Up Help?
I travel by bus everyday and I hear a lot of one-sided
conversations! This time it was an obviously very upset
young man talking to someone about:
Yeah there I was...just got through my finals... going
to job interviews,calling my girlfriend to keep her
up to date on how things were progressing... describing
the interviews in the evening..
Yes, we moved in together a couple of months before the
baby was due... she was so excited about the new apartment...
yes a baby girl... beautiful man!
So what happened? I'll tell you what happened...she went
crazy on me...I drove up to the apartment parking
lot to bring her some things from the store... no I
asked her to come down to the parking lot because I had just
time enough to get to an appointment and all hell broke loose...
She made such a scene that the apartment manager called the
cops ...what a mess... I don't want us to break up...
She was screaming that I don't care about her... I don't
care about our baby...I don't care about our relationship,
she's through with me, all I care about is myself, all she
has to listen to is me talking about my last interview, my
next interview and how great they all think I am...
I don't care about her,I don't care how she's feeling...
Man I think she's through with me ... Yeah whe went to
stay with her mother... I don't know what I'm going to do...
We've been going together all through college, I don't know
what got into her...All I know is I don't want to break up!
But she won't talk to me!
At this point I imagined a scene from a TV commercial where
I would pull this wonderful book out of my bag,tap the young
man on the shoulder and say to him "Here's what you can do...
read 'The Magic of Making up'
But in real life although we're subjected to listening to
someone pour out their intimate problems for everyone close
by to listen to and still feel that we have no right to
interfere...Too bad!
Tdub's book
The Magic of Making Up has an answer to every
one of the questions the 'cellphone young man' might have...
Do you make these mistakes with your ex?
Do you try to convince her that you are the love of her
life'
Do you apologize profusely for everyting?
Do you promise to change for good this time?
Do you try to get her to see that it wasn't really your
fault?
Do you even beg with her to take you back?
I'd like to tell him that T dub says with every word he
utters, regardless of his intention, the more and more
defensive, angry and distant she might become...
TDub says "know that this is not your fault! You weren't
taught about couple relationship in school... maybe you
weren't taught that by your parents either...
What this young man could learn from TW Jackson's
The Magic of Making Upcould serve him not only in his
present emergency but as a continuing roadmap for him
and his girl to have a happy relationship...
conversations! This time it was an obviously very upset
young man talking to someone about:
Yeah there I was...just got through my finals... going
to job interviews,calling my girlfriend to keep her
up to date on how things were progressing... describing
the interviews in the evening..
Yes, we moved in together a couple of months before the
baby was due... she was so excited about the new apartment...
yes a baby girl... beautiful man!
So what happened? I'll tell you what happened...she went
crazy on me...I drove up to the apartment parking
lot to bring her some things from the store... no I
asked her to come down to the parking lot because I had just
time enough to get to an appointment and all hell broke loose...
She made such a scene that the apartment manager called the
cops ...what a mess... I don't want us to break up...
She was screaming that I don't care about her... I don't
care about our baby...I don't care about our relationship,
she's through with me, all I care about is myself, all she
has to listen to is me talking about my last interview, my
next interview and how great they all think I am...
I don't care about her,I don't care how she's feeling...
Man I think she's through with me ... Yeah whe went to
stay with her mother... I don't know what I'm going to do...
We've been going together all through college, I don't know
what got into her...All I know is I don't want to break up!
But she won't talk to me!
At this point I imagined a scene from a TV commercial where
I would pull this wonderful book out of my bag,tap the young
man on the shoulder and say to him "Here's what you can do...
read 'The Magic of Making up'
But in real life although we're subjected to listening to
someone pour out their intimate problems for everyone close
by to listen to and still feel that we have no right to
interfere...Too bad!
Tdub's book
The Magic of Making Up has an answer to every
one of the questions the 'cellphone young man' might have...
Do you make these mistakes with your ex?
Do you try to convince her that you are the love of her
life'
Do you apologize profusely for everyting?
Do you promise to change for good this time?
Do you try to get her to see that it wasn't really your
fault?
Do you even beg with her to take you back?
I'd like to tell him that T dub says with every word he
utters, regardless of his intention, the more and more
defensive, angry and distant she might become...
TDub says "know that this is not your fault! You weren't
taught about couple relationship in school... maybe you
weren't taught that by your parents either...
What this young man could learn from TW Jackson's
The Magic of Making Upcould serve him not only in his
present emergency but as a continuing roadmap for him
and his girl to have a happy relationship...
The Magic of Making Up
by TW (T dub) Jackson
I started this blog today because I am so impressed
by a book I just finished reading... this book is not
written by a famous author and to my knowledge it's
not on any bestseller list.
I want to review
The Magic of Making Up because it has the
potential to help so many people,young,middle-aged
or older.
As the title indicates, the author TW(TDub)Jackson
writes about how to save a failing relationship,
or how to deal with a breakup. The way he does this
is remarkable... he writes from the heart... when he
makes suggestions on what you should or shouldn't do
if you're hoping to get your ex back.
The resources he includes are innovative and he
even shares some unconventional methods, telling
you what foods to avoid and what foods to eat to
keep your spirits up...
There's lots more and I would advise anyone going
through a difficult time in their relationship
or anyone trying to survive a breakup to give
some serious thought to the importance of sharing
your life with a loving partner. I believe it's
worth the effort of trying to figure things out
and getting help if you need it.
When we're young we sometimes think that there
will be many more chances for happiness and maybe
there are but think twice or many times before
throwing away what you have or could have now...
"T dub" is able to communicate a deep understanding
of the roller-coaster emotional state many people
are in when going through a breakup.
He warns you of the pitfalls that could hinder
your chances of a reconciliation...not as a dry
professional but with wisdom born of experience.
You can hear "T dub" in the two videos he has
included in the book's sales page: here's one
to give you an idea of Tdub's sincerity:
Find out more at:
The Magic of Making Up
by a book I just finished reading... this book is not
written by a famous author and to my knowledge it's
not on any bestseller list.
I want to review
The Magic of Making Up because it has the
potential to help so many people,young,middle-aged
or older.
As the title indicates, the author TW(TDub)Jackson
writes about how to save a failing relationship,
or how to deal with a breakup. The way he does this
is remarkable... he writes from the heart... when he
makes suggestions on what you should or shouldn't do
if you're hoping to get your ex back.
The resources he includes are innovative and he
even shares some unconventional methods, telling
you what foods to avoid and what foods to eat to
keep your spirits up...
There's lots more and I would advise anyone going
through a difficult time in their relationship
or anyone trying to survive a breakup to give
some serious thought to the importance of sharing
your life with a loving partner. I believe it's
worth the effort of trying to figure things out
and getting help if you need it.
When we're young we sometimes think that there
will be many more chances for happiness and maybe
there are but think twice or many times before
throwing away what you have or could have now...
"T dub" is able to communicate a deep understanding
of the roller-coaster emotional state many people
are in when going through a breakup.
He warns you of the pitfalls that could hinder
your chances of a reconciliation...not as a dry
professional but with wisdom born of experience.
You can hear "T dub" in the two videos he has
included in the book's sales page: here's one
to give you an idea of Tdub's sincerity:
Find out more at:
The Magic of Making Up
Subscribe to:
Comments (Atom)
