Is this the title of a romantic movie? Recapture my ex-
lover's mind, his heart and his soul? That's a tall order...
which one would be more difficult?
Which one of those three did I ever have? I believe I had
his heart when we decided to get married, and he had mine!
We really cared about one another and our love burned hot
setting our passion on fire...I don't know about our souls...
we didn't really get into any deep talk... we knew one
another through the sharing of the music we both liked,
good food and drink with friends and family, and passionate
lovemaking...
Then when we moved into our apartment after our wedding,
I don't know exactly how it started, we were bickering
a lot about small things but we still had a passionate
love life and money enough to go out with our friends.
Then I had our first baby and we thought I should quit
my job and stay home with him for a couple of years...
So that meant there was less money coming in and my
husband started to bitch about 'never having any money
to do anything' I started to think he wished he could
still have the life his unmarried friends have, we
don't really have any serious discussions...because
I'm afraid that might lead to a breakup...
You know I think that young lovers should talk more
and get to know more about one another's mind and
hopes for the future, but hormones get in the way
and they believe that love will overcome any problem.
Even if you feel right now that your situation is too
far gone,too screwed up, you could go to counseling?
nah he would never want to go...he doesn't think
there's anything wrong anyway,
I guess that's not right,he probably thinks that
there isn't anything that can be fixed, meaning our
marriage is hopeless...
Besides counseling cost money and we don't have too
much of that. And yet, if I thought there was a small
chance that I could get my lover back, that someone
could help us get out of our rut...
I could give up going to the mall and save a little
money that way, I go with my friend Brenda to look for
bargains, but really we're both fooling ourselves,
trying to forget about our sad lives.
Hey, Brenda told me about a book
'The Magic of Making Up'. that's all over the
internet, written by a guy named TW Jackson, or 'T dub'.
I am tempted to get that book ...that would be only
a one time expense...
I saw him, T dub, talk on a 'YouTube' video and he
really gave me some hope, he talks like he really cares
about people's problems...What if he tells enough in
his book for me to understand my husband's mind and
soul enough to save our relationship. I really don't
want us to break up...so I made up my mind, I've got
to get T dub's book...
I feel better already, I have hope now that we can
save our relationship if we just follow the great
advice in
'The Magic of Making Up'.
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